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Save Your Marriage by Going To The Root of the Problem
Saturday, December 5th, 2009There is so much written about “how to save a marriage” it can seem a bit overwhelming at times. The truth is no one can really save your marriage but you. Marriage gurus can throw out the breadcrumbs, but in the end it is all about you and your willingness to do what really needs to be done to save your marriage.
Your marriage belongs to God. And when you truly believe this that is when you can actually give yourself (marriage) to God. If you don’t believe that your marriage belongs to God then you are reading the wrong article.
What happens when you hand your marriage over to God? God helps you to look beyond the petty quarrelling, faults and weaknesses of each other. Why focus on the negative? When you stop focusing on the negative aspects of your spouse you will be better able to seek a solution, not based on negative feelings, but on the principled acts of love. As long as you base your marriage on “how your spouse makes you feel” nothing will ever improve.
Marriage gurus can attempt to tell you what needs to be done to improve your marriage but they can’t go to God for you. They can’t make your heart willing to see what needs to be done so you can make the necessary changes in yourself. If you believe that marriage belongs to God then you have to give your marriage to God. Why do you keep giving it to the world? Does your marriage belong to God or to the world? You decide.
Are you carrying around a not so humble heart toward your spouse? What is that going to do for you? Absolutely nothing. I believe that once you can take your eyes off of your spouse’s faults you’ll be able to see your faults much more clearly. The problem is not that your spouse cheated, or that they are controlling, or wrapped up within an addiction, or that they are cruel and treat you bad. The problem is in how you allow these things to affect you and how you react because of them.
The root of the problems in marriage stem from the inability to properly resolve issues and the lack of understanding the importance of priorities. The major setback for couples is they are not using the principles for marriage that have been taught to them. Couples aren’t resolving issues and when they do they go by their own understanding of what they think should be done. But it is not what should be done based on the Creator of marriage.
Principle 2. Be a giver. Give in. Be encouraging. Show compassion. Be submissive. Be forgiving. Ask Christ for the guidance you need. When we don’t allow these principles to take precedent in our lives we are handling our marriage just like everyone else…without God. If you believe you are a child of God then show it in your marriage. Christian love is not a feeling but a choice. Have you made your choice?
Principle 3. Be respectful of Spouse. Be considerate of your spouse’s feelings. Show reverence and high opinion for the person you married. Be appreciative of what you have been blessed with. I’ve noticed lately that people treat their animals better than their spouse. This is very wrong! Let go of anger and bitterness or it will make you sick, literally. What is controlling your heart in your marriage? If your heart only cares about getting your needs met through your spouse then your marriage is in dire trouble.
THE ROOT OF THE PROBLEM IS…
Principle 1. God should guide your marriage. Placing God where God belongs, at the top of your priority list is what your marriage needs! Humble your heart and mind to God and you will see more clearly to what your position is in the marriage. You are not God and your spouse is not God, and trying to control each other as if you were God will never work! That’s not the way God designed marriage to be.
Putting God first means everything you say and do comes from the principles taught you for living a righteous life. Now you will have something beautiful and awesome to base your marriage on. If your marriage belongs to God then the top of your priority list is putting God first, spouse second, children third, and ministry and self last.
And he sat down, and called the twelve, and saith unto them, If any man desire to be first, the same shall be last of all, and servant of all. Mark 9:35
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Marriage Counseling – Keep Your Husband Satisfied at Home and Save Your Marriage
Monday, November 23rd, 2009Husbands by and large give varied reasons for seeking sexual or emotional fulfillment outside the home. But one thing is for sure, many of them were not getting the type of fulfillment they hoped for at home. Some had unrealistic expectations while others were asking for the basic needs that a wife should fulfill.
Now, we do not condone a cheating spouse and do not believe that any situation should cause a partner to seek satisfaction from anyone apart from his wife. Nevertheless, the truth remains that many husbands do this and it is up to you to safeguard the purity and sanctity of your marriage.
Men generally have a higher sex drive than women (although you have many marriages with the reverse) therefore, as wives we need to be willing to give much more to create a balance and two way satisfaction in our marriage.
There are too many women out there who would be willing to satisfy your spouse at the drop of a pin. So, if you are not doing it you may be asking for trouble.
Let us look at some simple but powerful ways that you can keep your husband satisfied at home:
A Peaceful Home
Nothing is more unappealing than a home mixed with strife, a nagging wife and constant arguing. If your home is not peaceful then your husband may not want to be there. He may seek a more peaceful environment somewhere else.
Therefore, if as he comes through the door you bombard him with all the negatives, this is what he will grow to expect and in his eyes you are not that loving and considerate wife he hoped for.
Now, he may not be the loving and considerate husband you also hoped for and if this is the case we would advice you to get your feeling out in the open once and for all and come up with a plan as a couple.
A Daring Spirit
Men love adventure, action and escapades. You need to ensure that he receives all of that at home.
Some wives are too rigid and are unwilling to try new things. My advice to every wife is to be daring and adventurous with your husbands once it is in the guidelines of just the two of you. No one else and nothing else.
You can rent a hotel for the night and meet up there. Do a strip tease for him and so many other ideas that take creativity and some amount of planning.
A Loving Heart
Pleasing your spouse really boils down to a loving heart. Do you love him enough to keep him satisfied? Take some time this week to better understand him. What his likes and dislikes are and how you fit in. Many couples have been living together for years and still do not know these basic things about their spouse.
If you want to take your marriage to a new and renewed height then put your whole heart in it and you will be amazed at the possibilities.
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They are the authors and fouders of the Marriage Thermometer Principles, a marriage therapy solution which begins with couples using their uniquely engineered Marriage Thermometer Software to determine the temperature of their marriage. Couples can then proceed to using the Marriage Thermometer eBooks, Audio, Econsultations and other Resources that relate to infidelity, improving your sex life, respect, communication, unhappy marriages and much more.
They are also dedicated Christians for over 26 years combined and attend the Kingston Church of Christ where they met each other, fell in love and got married.
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They are also dedicated Christians for over 26 years combined and attend the Kingston Church of Christ where they met each other, fell in love and got married.
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Common Causes of Divorce Save Your Marriage From Emotional Abuse
Monday, November 23rd, 2009Is Your Marriage Suffering From Emotion Abuse? Save Your Marriage Now!
Think about it. As we drive down the street the car in front is driving a couple miles an hour slower than we are. Automatically we become frustrated. We call the driver all sorts of names and even call his ancestry into question. We seethe and fret and fume until we almost burst a blood vessel. And all of this because in our minds we are the perfect driver. And this idiot ought to get off of the road. Where did he get his drivers license anyway? Out of a Cracker Jack box?
Now let’s take it a bit closer to home. Have you ever been washing the dishes only to be told you did not know what you are doing? First you have to rinse them, then stack them, then fill the sink with just perfect water temperature. Then add this many squirts of Dawn. Nothing else will clean as well as Dawn, don’t you know? And don’t rinse them in hot water. Use cold water. Dummy. Don’t you know any thing?!! Sheesh!
Now I ask you. How many folks are washing dishes daily and have been for years? How many of them follow the exact formula your spouse laid out for you? NONE! That is right. A big fat Zero. And you know what? All of those dishes still get washed and none of those folks died because someone’s magic dish washing formula was not used.
If you are the one doing this sort of judging and controlling (it is actually emotional and psychological abuse), can you see how destructive this is to your marriage? How would you react to your spouse doing this? If you happen to be the one helping, how often will you continue to offer your services if you are abused in this way? Not many would be my guess.
Can you see how if you are guilty of this behavior why it could be a cause of divorce. I would just throw my hands in the air and tell you to do it your own self. And so will they, sooner or later. Probably sooner than later. It may have already happened and you wonder why they no longer help with chores.
Listen up. If this is happening in your marriage your marriage is in big Trouble. With a capitol T. You will soon harvest what you have been planting. And you have no one to blame but yourself. If you want a sure fire cause of divorce, just be this person.
A much better way and by far more productive, tell your helpful spouse what a great job they are doing and how much you appreciate their help. When you see how much they try to please you because you support their efforts, you will wonder why you never did it before.
One of the best descriptions I have found is, Love endures long and is patient and kind; love never is envious nor boils over with jealousy; love is not boastful or vainglorious, nor does it display itself haughtily.
There’s enough causes of divorce in every marriage. Please, please, please do not demean each other and make them feel stupid and incompetent by treating like they are. Anyone can tear another down. Only a select rare few can truly build another up. Which on are you striving to be? What are you doing to save your marriage?
Remember, no one wants to be told they are stupid incompetents. Save your marriage today. Live and help live.
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Conquering Your Conjugal Disloyalty To Save Your Marriage
Sunday, November 22nd, 2009It will buy you some time and energy in conquering your conjugal disloyalty, here are some steps on how to save your marriage even after cheating on your partner. This will guide you to renovate the trust that was gone and aid you build a better relationship with your partner. It will take courage, hard work and honesty in order for you to save your marriage even after your disloyalty to your partner.
Below are some steps in conquering your conjugal disloyalty:
1. First thing is to apologize to your partner. This step may be simple yet powerful means to start to overcome your infidelity after betraying to your partner. You may certainly feel cynical, scared and confused – but apologizing to your partner sincerely without any hesitations or rationales will be the first step in saving your marriage after what you have done. Confess to your partner that you were responsible, and that it is your fault in having an emotional affair, one-night stand, or maybe a multiple affairs.
2. Second is for you to listen. Let your partner communicate with the feeling of betrayal, pain, disgust, rage, or even frustration no matter how bad it may make you feel. Try to listen attentively, until your partner is done talking. Take away your feelings of remorse, guilt or pain aside. Conquering your disloyalty may engage to an emotional sacrifice and will be painful, vulnerable communication. You have to work constructing a better relationship with your partner if you like your marriage to be saved.
3. Discuss with your partner about the affair. Communicate to your partner and you may want to share some thoughts on how and why you betrayed your partner. In overcoming your marital infidelity, propose to your partner on how you will protect yourself in committing another affair.
4. You may want to change your lifestyle. You are no longer allowed to continue your old precedents after cheating on your partner. Accommodating some new limits and even boundaries will go distant in conquering your conjugal disloyalty. You may want to rebuild the trust your partner had given you by being ajar to reasonable demands concerning boundaries and actions.
A therapy for your marriage may aid you couples deal with the passionate, volatile sensations that often go together with the affairs. If you have been unfaithful to your partner and would like to save your marriage, make sure that you will be honest to counseling for you couples.
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“Secrets Of Blissful Relationshipsâ Save Your Marriage With Romantic Rituals
Friday, November 20th, 2009Save Your Marriage With Romantic Rituals
Justin Case http://magicofmakingupworks.com is happy to bring you another great article on how to save your marriage.
Are you trapped in a boring marriage? You can save your marriage from the deadly sin of boredom with just a little bit of effort. Not a lot, just a little.
What rituals have you established in your marriage to keep it young and fresh and exciting?
None? For shame on you. I know it is easy to fall into the rut of mediocrity in our relationships. Shame on us. This is the one place mediocrity has no place. We started these relationships because they were exciting and made us feel like a million bucks. (Hopefully that is not all green and wrinkled.) We have a duty to ourselves and our spouses to maintain an aura of excitement.
Rituals will keep you looking forward with anticipation for the next event, wondering what is going to happen, this time. It can be like Christmas, every time.
Do you suppose if rituals were initiated in your relationship things just might get spiced up a bit? Do you think perhaps a bit of old flame could be reignited in your love life?
How would you feel if your spouse started to make you feel like the most important part of their life? Do you think they would feel about the same way? If so, maybe you can explore a couple of things to pull the mold from the old jelly bottle and make for a more appetizing spread.
Call your spouse on the way to work right after you leave just tell them you miss them alreadyPut a love note under the pillow to found when they make the bedLeave a sexy note in the shower asking for save water date that nightMeet your spouse at a little cozy eatery for lunch once a week, same time same place, same stationGive you lover a jingle during the mid morning and mid afternoon to just say Hi. Establish a habit of one date a week. Dinner and move doesn’t count on this one. BORING! Go ice skating or go swinging (No, not that kind.) in the park. You get the ideaOne night a month hire a baby sitter if you need one. Find a nice club with nice music and dancing. End up in as nice a hotel as you can afford. Order room service in the morning.
When was the last time you kissed our spouse like when you dated? Been a while? Why not surprise them and do it again, often. Like every time you get home from work. Try it on for size when you meet in the hall way, going or coming.
How about a real nice secure hug from behind when your spouse is not looking? Don’t to forget to whisper how much love and appreciate them, and mean it for a change.
These kinds of rituals will go long way to putting some jazz into any marriage or relationship. Everyone wants to feel wanted and needed. Do your part and they will most certainly do theirs. And it will not take weeks or months to see a difference around the old homestead.
Think outside of the box. There are many more ideas for adding excitement for a more blissful relationship. Put for a little bit of effort now to save your marriage from the this deadly sin and it just might keep you out of the divorce courts.
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Ways to Save a Marriage â Tips that Truly Work
Friday, November 20th, 2009If you are in search for ways to save a marriage, you will find lots of tips that may or may not work. The best thing that you can do in this regard is to sort everything out and relate them to your situation and to what you are going through. You have to understand that every relationship is different. Others might have gone through minor problems that got out of hand and resulted to divorce while others can handle even the biggest hurdles and do everything in their capacity to make everything work out.If you are on this quest for some reasons or another, this only means one thing. You are having a problem with your own relationship. The good thing about this is that you are open to try anything, hence your search for ways to save a marriage.Where do you start your search about the topic? Here are some recommendations that you may opt to apply on your own endeavor.1. You can start at home by browsing on various web pages on the Internet that deal with the topic of different ways to save a marriage. You must research hard until you find a situation you can relate to. You have to very vigilant about the matter. If you think you already have enough on your hands, quit the research and start applying the techniques that you have found on your own dilemma.2. Together with your partner, you must seek counseling. A professional might help in enlightening you both on matters that you may have a hard time accepting or even discerning. You have to go through this together. This way, you will both know about what can be done. And if you are serious about keeping the marriage intact, nothing should stop you from trying the things you have learned to help you resolve that conflicts that you are faced with on your relationship.3. Try reading books about relationships. Although it is still better to experience things in order to fully learn from them, sometimes, you have to gauge what can be done by being open to what others might say about the matter. You must not take everything in the book seriously. You know your partner better than the author of the book. You can apply the tips but do it on ways that you will be able to relate them on your own relationship.4. There is no problem that could be bigger if you and your partner will only talk things out. Your partner is your best goldmine of information about how you can save your relationship and make it last. You have to speak up as to what you think about the things that you have been through and the things that you may be faced with in the future. And not only should you learn how to voice out your concerns, you must also perfect the act of listening.You have to accept that nothing is perfect. This way, you won’t expect too much from each other.
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Saving Your Marriage â Can You Do It?
Thursday, November 19th, 2009In our world, tons of couples face problems and dissimilarities that lead to miserable marriages that at times leads to divorce. Although nobody wants a broken marriage, sometimes it is unavoidable. Here are some guidelines to consider in saving your marriage.
Take the initiative. Wives ought to do small things, or small gestures that are very important for your husband. Cooking special meals, preparing his clothes for work and small gifts and cards when he least expects them.
Keeping secrets would not get you anywhere good with your marriage. Whatever it is that you would wish to discuss to your partner, do so. If sex is a problem for you, then be open about it.
Communication does not only involve talking, you have to listen as well. Giving each other the opportunity to talk is a good option. Every single thing that is being brought up should become your guidelines so that the two of you will learn how to respect your partnerâs feelings and points of views.
Although easier said than done, if you are really interested in saving your marriage, the couple ought to know how to go on with their lives. Try not to dwell in the past where mistakes are made. One must learn to accept and forget all the mistakes that had been done.
Seeking advice from your friends or family is strongly recommended. Getting one from a counselor is a good option as well. Both husband and wife have to commit and be devoted to attend sessions. Where they will be able to speak their thoughts and speak freely.
These are merely only some of the tips that can help save the marriage. Love ought to always be at hand in order to save the relationship. It is love that would make all these things a lot easier to do and will aid in saving a marriage that was predestined to last forever.
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Seek Out For Counseling To Save Your Marriage
Thursday, November 19th, 2009When a couple gets married, they have a propensity to take no notice of counseling, not knowing how vital counseling is when you want to save your marriage. Couples who had encounter problems with their accord wait too long before they will look for help of a marriage counselor. Therapy has many benefits, like giving some room to those people who are in a relationship to discern what have caused the issue in order to find the appropriate solution to the problem. Heaps of partners will imagine that to submit to counseling is just like admitting that their marriage is in a state of failing.
On saving a marriage, you must behold what counseling can do to revive your matrimonial afflictions. To make the therapy work, married couple must be fully dedicated in order for them to save their relationship. Counseling will not aid the relationship if even one of you will just go through it reluctantly. Before the wound has occurred, a councilor will be of a vast assistance if you as a couple will settle on seeking an advice earlier. In order to save the marriage, both parties must try to communicate openly and must be responsive of even the slightest changes in the relationship. Being sensitive of such degrees might aid contain issues before they become too hard for counseling to resolve.
In saving a marriage, both couples should be eager to do almost everything it must take in order for the relationship to work. Love must nevertheless be in the equation for the counseling to work. Concerns might as well become more complex when certain factors are implicated, like children and problems financially. Good counseling is not hard to find; there are numbers of good counselors out there who are keen to do what they can to reclaim what is left of your marriage.
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