Saving your Marriage

A marriage is so unique and so special if it has some special ingredients. For example like every menu will become very special food if the menu itself has special ingredients.

For example, pepper and salt are so important for some food and must be available to give a special taste into it.  Every spouse also needs to have some special ingredients to reignite their romance.

The wonderful difference between man and woman in a marriage life can create the art of wonderful marriage if every spouse can give some special ingredients each other.

Pepper and salt are totally different, but both of them are so important and must be available and ready to be served on the table. Both of them cannot be separated.  If one of them is gone, so the taste of the food is not delicious.

Both husband and wife should play his or her own role and he or she should give some special ingredients to their marriage life. If everybody doesn’t want to play his or her own role, so they cannot create happiness in their marriage life.

Husband and wife are created in the wonderful different, that’s why they should complete each other.

How can you maintain your marriage by giving some special ingredients in your marriage life?

1.Play your own special role as a husband or as a wife. Give your special ingredients   into your marriage life.

2.Respect your spouse’s role. Remember, your mate’s role is unique and important.

3.Do not focus on your interest. Just focus on your mate’s interest.  All of you are so special and you have an important role and try to support each other.

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One night, young two lovers met each other in a very special moment in one of the most famous restaurants in town. They were talking and sharing each other for a couple of hours.

They were trying to express their feeling and ideas. They were so happy at that time. Maybe it was the most beautiful moment they ever had.  A little sweet smile sometimes paints on his or her face.  Finally, the man put a beautiful diamond ring into the lady’s sweet finger while kneeling and saying “Do you want to marry me?”

It was a little episode about “Love Story” between young two lovers.  Romance is essentially enchantment, excitement, passion and love of one person for another. It touches almost every one of us in some form. Falling in love is the best, but can it last forever?

Many years after their wedding, couples fail to express to the ones they love the most just how special they are. In conclusion, most have fallen into this state of boredom unknowingly.   Most couples began their romance with a torrent of emotion. Overtime their initial romantic feeling faded.  Other things began to fill their mind.  The time, attention, energy that once was given to their beloved is now spent on pressures at work, money concerns, kids, and things.

This condition will never happen suddenly. Many factors can create this condition.  The background, temperament, and current stress situation all contribute to making some couples far more unresponsive than their mates would have hoped for.

Emotional problems in the past might bring negative impacts to their marriage.  A solution to the emotional problem between marriage couple is urgently needed. Regardless of whether you are a man or a woman, lack of romantic love in your marriage will affect you.

However, we are convinced that no situation is too difficult to be overcome by a couple that wants to keep healthy marriage alive. A healthy marriage can be gained by two healthy persons.

Mathematics in marriage:

When two persons become one cannot be formulated by adding 1+1=1, but 1×1=1Shortly, if there are two healthy persons, so the marriage itself automatically becomes a healthy marriage.

If one of the mates has some emotional problems, so the marriage itself will be an unhealthy marriage.1/2 x 1 = 1/2

If both of them have emotional problems and they become one in marriage, so their marriage will be broken.1/2 X 1/2 = 1/4

Here some suggestions that may help you in your desire to communicate better with one another and maintain your healthy marriage:1.Realize that your marriage is unhealthy, even almost dying and you need to take immediate actions to overcome it.2.Learn to be open minded person to share your feeling and ideas to your spouse.3.Solve the problems of your life in the past immediately.4.Enjoy your life today and forget those things which are behind.

May your marriage can be restored and maintained in a healthy marriage.

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